You have picked the perfect man and the perfect engagement ring. Now it is time to pick the ring you will be given on your wedding day! Last time, we discussed how to get what you really want in an engagement ring. This time let’s discuss what you want in a wedding band and learn a little more terminology to make sure that happens!
There are many options to choose from when looking at bands. You can keep it simple and have a clean look with a metal band, or you can always spice it up with diamonds or colored gemstones. And there are even more options when you decide to decorate your band with jewels. Let us continue to discuss terminology regarding this matter so you can articulate what you want.
Shared Prong (Picture No. 1). Shared prong refers to when the diamonds are set so that each diamond has a piece of metal between it and the diamond beside it. In the picture, the design is by C. Gonshor. This is a very popular design because the diamonds are more prominent and the brilliance of the diamonds within the setting really stands out.
Eternity Band (Picture No. 2). There are many sentimental feelings surrounding the wedding band. It is usually worn underneath the engagement ring as it is closest to your heart. The idea behind the eternity band is that the diamonds are never ending, much like the love of the person who has given it to you (how sweet is that!). You can have the diamonds in this setting in any shape to better match your engagement ring. Pictured is a ring by J.B. Star with fancy yellow diamonds set in this eternity setting. “Breathtaking” is the only way to describe this piece!
Channel Setting (Picture No. 3). Another way to place diamonds in a wedding band is by having them in a channel setting. In the picture, you notice that the diamonds are held in place by the metal that lips over the edge of each diamond in this design by Armadani. These rings can come with or without the pattern along the channel, and you can have various cut diamonds in the channel to add a bit more personality to your ring.
Pavé (Picture No. 4). Pavé refers to the idea that the jeweler is paving–much like a road–your ring with diamonds. This can be a very feminine look with a thin band or can have a heavy and flashy look with lots of diamonds (as shown in the picture; ring by Armadani).
When you are shopping, keep in mind there are no rules on what type of band you must wear with your engagement ring. Mine is worn on the right hand and I plan to stack different styles of bands on top to celebrate special occasions in our lives together.
Now, go out there and get what you really want–you know how to ask for it!
-Laura
